Therapy for friendship issues

Are friendships a source of stress rather than satisfaction?

Do you often worry your friends are mad at you and overthink interactions?

Do you find it hard to say no to your friends for fear of losing them or feel left our easily?

Perhaps making new friends is stressful because you lack confidence or aren’t sure what people think of you? 

My name is Rebecca Stambridge. I am a qualified  psychotherapist and mindfulness teacher specialising in friendship issues and low self esteem. I work online or in person.     

Would you like to...

have better friendships by feeling more secure and less “needy” 

Would you like to....

make new friends aligned with your authentic self without fear of rejection 

Would you like to....

feel you can be yourself with your friends and stop trying to please   

"I have always struggled with friendships and was my own worse critic. I tried therapy before but Rebecca's kind and practical approach had the best results. I use the exercises Rebecca taught me almost on a daily basis, helping bring a moment of calm and reflection when overwhelmed with anxious thoughts about friends. My friendships have improved as I feel I can be myself and not worry about pleasing everyone. I would Rebecca’s practice to anyone"

Natasha C
Self Esteem Client​

5/5

Friendship issues are often linked to other conerns. We can work on...

  • Overthinking 
  • Fear of rejection and failure 
  • Panic Attacks
  • Low Self Esteem
  • People pleasing
  • Social Anxiety 
  • Perfectionism
  • High functioning anxiety
  • Imposter syndrome
  • Self criticism
  • Anxious attachment styles
  • Childhood trauma

How I work

I believe that therapy should be an active collaboration so you’re heard and validated but also empowered with the information and tools you need to move forward. I am trained in the following highly effective and evidence based techniques to increase your self esteem so you can let go of anxiety and build the life you want.   

  • Compassion Focussed Therapy is a cutting edge, evidence based approach specifically designed to reduce interpersonal anxiety and self esteem. It combines the latest research into neuroscience, attachment theory, somatic practices, mindfulness and CBT to create a powerful psychological intervention. There is overwhelming evidence that building self compassion helps to heal early attachment wounds and equips people with newfound resilience to deal with the stresses of life with kindness and acceptance instead of criticism.
  • CBT: Is the gold standard method for improving mental health which helps you recognise and change the unhelpful thoughts contributing to friendship anxiety. Combined with active relaxation, breathwork and mindfulness, and self compassion, CBT is a powerful intervention for self esteem.
  • Mindfulness: When we struggle with friendships we are consumed with negative thinking and experience difficult feelings in the body. Mindfulness helps you to take a step back from unhelpful thoughts and learn how to regulate uncomfortable physical symptoms so they no longer hold you back.  

"Before working with Rebecca I felt crippled by lack of confidence and anxious about everything. Fear of making rejection stopped me making connections. Rebecca helped me understand why I felt how I did and then we worked together to build up my self esteem sp that I felt more secure with my friends. I feel like a different person and am so glad I started this journey"

Annie
Friendship Anxiety Client

5/5

How Long Will Therapy For Friendships Take?

Its very hard to say how long therapy will take as it differs from person to person. Therapy for friendship issues is not a quick fix and it can take time to build a relationship, understand your past experiences and then put the new tools into practice. It is therefore usually a long term commitment and committing to at least 12-16 sessions is a good idea.   

How much is therapy for friendship issues?

My sessions are £65 for 50 mins. The cost also includes weekly emails with information and resources, including my own guided meditations, to help you work on yourself in between sessions. 

About Me: I can help because I've been there.

I am a fully qualified BACP registered therapist and mindful self compassion teacher. I am passionate about helping people struggling with friendships because I have experienced that myself.   

I used to be so worried about what other people thought that it held me back from living the life I wanted and created anxiety in my work and personal life. When I discovered techniques to stop overthinking friendships and feel more secure socially, it inspired me to train as a therapist and so that I can share these techniques with others. 

I have worked in mental health for over 15 years, including well known mental health charities such as MIND and RETHINK. In addition to my private therapy practice I am also a qualified and experienced mindfulness teacher and Anxiety UK Approved Therapist. 

For more information about my work experience and training see “about me” section.